Have you ever heard the phrase “that’s just life” ?
The phrase that people use when trying to make an excuse for why their life is shitty or trying to convince you that somehow, some way, we’ve ended up on this planet to live a mediocre life & to settle for the less than ideal circumstances.
I’m here to tell you that they are entirely fucking wrong.
That’s not just life, and you DONT have to settle for anything that doesn’t represent that absolute best of everything you want.
Life is meant to be enjoyed.
It’s supposed to feel good.
You’re allowed to have more than just a handful of delicious experiences.
You are worthy of finding and creating an epic romance.
You can have soul fulfilling relationships.
You’re capable of having enough money to live a life that feels comfortable and aligned to your desires.
You deserve a healthy and energized body.
You deserve to wake up everyday knowing that the life you are living is from choices that empowered you.
All the good things that you fantasize about are possible for you….
They just need you to stop settling.
They need you to stop settling for just an ok job, relationship, friend group, body, and over all lifestyle.
”Just ok” is fine if it’s helping you pay the bills and support the forward momentum momentarily,
BUT don’t let “just ok”, be the end all be all.
Don’t let yourself turn into the individuals who say “that’s just life”.
YOU DONT HAVE TO SETTLE.
You don’t have to settle for what you’ve been handed, what you’ve been exposed to, what you’ve been through and what you created out of your trauma and broken heart.
You GET to experience and create the other end of the spectrum that brings you health, happiness, abundance and the delicious magic your heart desires.
Just because something you truly desire hasn’t happened yet, doesn’t mean that it isn’t going to happen in the future and sure as fuck doesn’t mean you have to put up with less.
You have to ask yourself are you willing to wait for it and continue to expand until you get it?
Not settling doesn’t mean you won’t face hardship and trials; not settling means you refuse to allow the less than ideal situations take you from the experiences that you desire.
It’s refusing to be jaded after hardships,
It’s refusing to close your heart,
It’s refusing to change your mind about life despite what your programming, conditioning or life situations have tried to convince you otherwise.
Don’t be convinced to settle just because it hasn’t happened yet.
Be convinced that the longer it takes, the better it will be if you continue to stay open & show up to do the work.
Life is meant to be magical, even for you.